“Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them, humanity cannot survive.” - the Dalai Lama
Reminded by Zen Habits' post, The Six Greatest Gifts You Can Give Your Loved Ones (Plus Audio Tips on Achieving Goals).
The special space to unload one chatterbox's sporadic thoughts on everything...
“Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them, humanity cannot survive.” - the Dalai Lama
"Often, it's the people closest to us who see the worst of us."I read this sentence in "5 Reasons to Leave a Crappy Job" article by Steve Errey, from The Confidence Guy and think...
"Demanding “fair” rules"-- Taken from Dumb Little Man's Post, "Are You Behaving Like Dumb Little Kid?"
Frankly, life can never be perfectly fair. From the minute we’re born, we have different opportunities and advantages in life. Have you ever noticed how little kids kick up a fuss if you alter the rules of a game to help out the smallest one, or to give a disabled kid a chance? Don’t be like that in life. If you’re a white male, maybe you feel that positive discrimination by employers is totally unreasonable – but remember that life starts off unfair.
"3. Instead of getting mad at someone, show gratitude."I accidentally conform to this point yesterday and I couldn't be happier with the result. Just as I was starting to get angry at a friend, I stumble across this thing that she had bought for me a while ago. The anger stopped and instead I was reminded of the good things we've had. How miniscule and silly this argument is in comparison to the wonderful friendship and good times we've shared.
"4. Instead of criticising your significant other, show gratitude."This is something that I couldn't agree more with. Seriously. I feel extremely lucky that my relationship with Shanon has introduced me to this concept and taught me to do this naturally.
"8. Instead of looking at what you don’t have, look at what you do have."This, is one advice that I'm working on and keep reminding myself about. :)
"Without friends no one would choose to live,
though he had all other goods."
-- Artistotle
"Some people come into our lives and quickly go.
Some stay for a while, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never, ever the same."
-- Flavia Weedn
"It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them."
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson
"Assumptions are the termites of relationships."
--Henry Winkler
"People change and forget to tell each other."
-- Lillian Hellman
"If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion." -- The Dalai Lama
"What goes around, comes around." -- Unknown Author
"Conscious Evolution & [read my older post, The Meaning of Life]"
And last but not least, helping others provides a much better rewards than accumulating wealth or personal experience. I mean, I can only eat/buy/travel so much. Yet, all the materials in the world will never be enough - I'm sure I'll continue to want more and more and more. Hence, it's much better to focus on contributing to make the world a better place for everyone.
"If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion."Yesterday I was reminded of how nice it feels to make someone else's day. Even a few hours after my friend told me I've given her "highlight of the week", I was still smiling and I remember thinking... "Hmm.. why do I feel that warm tingly feeling inside of me? Oh yes, it was because of what Lia said..".
-- The Dalai Lama
"Success isn't how far you got,This year has been funny for me. I've changed a lot, mainly internally, yet I don't feel that I've changed that much (or maybe I do?).
but the distance you traveled from where you started."
-- Proverb
"Try not. Do... or do not. There is no 'try'."That's not to say that I'm not going to improve my life further. After all, there is no better life goal than to become a better person. Which reminds me, I still need to apply the tips from this post, "How To: Keep Your Home Clean Without a Maid" *LOL*.
-- Jedi Master Yoda
"Before you try to change others,
remember how hard it is to change yourself."
-- Bill Bluestein
1. anything that provides mental stimulus for thinking
... A pun is play on words; so when people say "excuse the pun" they mean, excuse the bad joke or the bad play on words.
You could say “I keep falling off my bike, but I just get right back on it and ride. I'm a firm believer in re-cycling.” This pun is just used as a bad joke. ...
“And in the end, it’s not the years in your life that count. It’s the life in your years.”, and after it gets us to think about what really matters, it finishes with a gentle reminder...
“We are always getting ready to live but never living.” - Ralph Waldo Emerson
Terrine "is a glazed earthenware (terracotta, French terre cuite) cooking dish with vertical sides and a tightly fitting lid, generally oblong or oval. Modern versions are also made of enameled cast-iron. By extension, the term also refers to food prepared and served in a terrine, mainly game and venison, brawn (head cheese) and pâtés. If it has been pressed and chilled, then turned out for serving in slices, a terrine becomes a pâté, which Julia Child called "a luxurious cold meatloaf"."
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